Suggestions on Oral Sex
It's always interesting to listen and learn from professionals. The suggestions we present below are a small adaptation of the advice that Jenna Jameson, possibly the most famous porn actress on the planet, provides in one of the chapters of her biography "How to Make Love Like a Porn Star" (despite the title, the book is a biography and not a manual).
1) Eye contact is very important. Pull your hair back from your face and look as intensely as you can. Remember that the sense of sight is fundamental for arousal, especially in men, so try to make sure the "show" is well seen.
2) Start very slowly, using only your mouth for the first 10 minutes. The initial tongue movements should be gentle and occasionally circle around what you're sucking. After that time, hands can be used to massage as well, but carefully so the fun doesn't end too soon.
3) Know how to use your hands intelligently and not just focus on one place. For example, the testicles are often the big forgotten ones in men, while in women, it's many erogenous zones like the labia majora. A good idea is two-handed caresses, especially when each hand makes the opposite movement to the other.
4) Lubrication is very important, so if you feel friction, things aren't going well. Saliva is a good natural lubricant, and some find it especially sensual. The deeper the origin of that saliva, the better, as it will be more "consistent" and, therefore, do its lubricating job better.
5) Observing masturbation is important because it gives clues about the movements your partner will like most. You have to put yourself in the other's shoes and feel how you'd like it best. Not everything should be linear movements. Try wrist twists occasionally.
6) The tongue should be used intelligently. If you want more depth for the blowjob, move it aside as much as possible. Once you've gained that extra depth, stroke the base of the penis with it. You might feel nauseous at first, but it's one of the most pleasurable movements for a guy.
7) Many girls torture their lips to avoid hurting the guy with their teeth, which is very torturous. To avoid this, protect the lower teeth with your tongue and open your mouth wider, so the upper teeth don't graze.
8) The scrotum and perineum are important sources of pleasure that don't usually appear in movies because they're not very visually appealing. Gently sucking the testicles, even bringing them into the mouth while masturbating your partner with your hand, and stimulating the perineum with your tongue are recommended experiences, provided, of course, that your partner has shaved the entire area.
9) Most men are extremely aroused by finishing on the girl's face or having her swallow their semen, so if you can do it, you'll have a point in your favor.
10) Always remember to maintain basic hygiene measures before practicing oral sex. Regarding the previous suggestion, avoid semen coming into contact with the eyes as it not only stings but is also a potential source of infections. It's also useful to know that lukewarm water is best for cleaning semen. Hot water will make it sticky and hard to remove, so it's not recommended.