Role Play
Idea suggested by Lucía.
As a complement to the fantasy ideas we've published in the last two updates, we've developed some simple rules for fantasizing with your partner through role play. For those who don't know, a role play is nothing more than playing a character to have a good time with your fellow players ("role" in English literally means a part in a play).
In some erotic shops, you'll find couple role-playing games that propose the most suggestive situations. It's never a bad idea to get one of these games, although with good imagination, you won't need anything at all!
Rules:
1.- Before starting, you have to set the boundaries of the game, marking the limit to which you want to go. No one has to do anything they don't want to do.
2.- Agree on the situation to be represented. It's advisable to choose something you both like, either through common ideas or by combining similar fantasies you have. If you can't reach an agreement, you can always take turns representing situations you like. Surely no one will object to playing the game more than once ;)
3.- Forget shame and prejudices. Relax and get into character. As you gain confidence with the game, it will be less difficult to improvise. Also, get rid of pressures like "I have to perform excellently in my role" or "I have to live up to expectations." It's about having fun and enjoying the moment.
4.- Prepare the setting with care and attention to detail, focusing on both small and large details. This will help you especially the first few times you play.
5.- Variety is the spice of life... or not. Occasionally vary the scenes, explore new possibilities. That doesn't mean you can't repeat the fantasies you like. We recommend not repeating excessively in short periods because you risk the fantasy losing its charm sooner rather than later.
Lastly, we suggest some situations extracted from an article in Cosmopolitan sent by Lucía:
"I'M THE COMPUTER REPAIR GUY ...or the washing machine... I ring the bell, and a beautiful woman answers. There's an immediate spark between us, and... we start and go as far as we want to go. The ideal is to prolong the moment of "do we go for it or not?" The technician really starts to repair, and she leans close to him, brushes against him, etc... Essential for increasing desire. The theme: light-hearted sex. It's the fantasy of a surprise, unexpected encounter. I like you, you like me, let's not overthink it. And often, a game is better than if this really happened.
I'M A TEACHER AND YOU'RE MY STUDENT
It's a great classic. You can play at giving private lessons that end "devolving." It's often very exciting, as many young people have started by falling in love with their teacher. But you can also reverse the roles: the teacher can be a woman. Seduction can come from the student or the teacher. And the other can resist a bit before finally giving in. The theme is the Pygmalion effect: I'm capable and can learn everything in private lessons: playing the piano, cello, math, English, sailing, swimming... and why not sex! And if we start from the premise that the student has no sexual experience and is going to discover everything, it's even more fun.
PRISONER AND GUARDIAN
You're in jail, punished, and I'm watching over you. You depend entirely on me. And I like you. I like you a lot... Then each can play the role of jailer or prisoner. The theme is dependence. The game can go in different directions: the prisoner seduces the jailer to get special treatment, or the prisoner lets themselves be seduced out of fear of reprisals... This can be a bit sadomasochistic or simply like a love story, all depending on how you play it.
I'M A HIGH-CLASS CALL GIRL AND YOU'RE MY CLIENT
I'm so beautiful and so experienced that you're willing to pay dearly just to make love to me. This can be very empowering for a woman, allowing herself to dress sexy and behave sexually in a very different way than usual... We can meet in a luxurious bar to play our agreed roles and then go home together to unleash passion. Theme: the courtesan who knows how to please, seduce, and treat men to keep them by her side... and also charging for it.
I'M A DANCER OR A STRIPPER
...and you have no right to touch... except for exceptions. I know how to awaken your desire. I know you like my body, and that's why I show it to you. But normally, you have no right to touch it. Although... Theme: exhibitionism and voyeurism in a healthy and natural way. Everyone likes to observe the other's body or feel observed and desired. Since sight is one of the senses most involved in desire and pleasure.
I FORCE YOU TO MAKE LOVE WITH ME
If in reality, it's a reprehensible act, in fantasy, this game has a completely different meaning. In the real world, forcing or coercing the other is an aggression and even rape. On the contrary, in this context, this game means "You're so desirable that I can't resist. You exert such a strong power over me that I desire you above all else." And for a woman, this (we insist, always in this game context) can be very liberating. She can let herself go and do things she would never have dared to do because she's "forced." But beware, this game must always be considered a game, and both partners must absolutely agree and unanimously approve the game rules. Otherwise, it could become very unpleasant. The theme: sex as a duty, violent seduction, and irresistible attraction."